I think that view arouse from viewing sex as taking pleasure, as oppose to giving pleasure. Like, the view that aim of one, in engaging in sex, is solely to take pleasure, and pleasure given is incidental. That would be cheap.
...but viewing sex as another venue to give pleasure to someone you love or just care for (as well as feel sexual desire for), THEN there is nothing cheap about it at all
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re: sex as demeaning
Date: 2008-11-22 02:22 am (UTC)...but viewing sex as another venue to give pleasure to someone you love or just care for (as well as feel sexual desire for), THEN there is nothing cheap about it at all