I haven't see the Venom movie, but I have seen lots of Eddie/Venom stories bookmarked on Pinboard, so congrats on having tons of new stuff to read.

I don't really see the Ant Man movies as an insult to Hank/Jan. They're still there (okay, they're in the second movie, where Jan was rescued), and I feel that their Epic Romance got a lot more respect in the movie than in the comics. (Although that last bit is heavily influenced by which comics you read; Marvel has multiple and conflicting canons.)