By frowning at our word documents and rewritten things a lot. You have to watch yourself and make sure that the kiss matches the mood of the fic. Sometimes you just have to go with what you personally find hot to read even if it is cliched.

There are times though where I just throw my hands up and write 'they kissed passionately/angrily/etc' when I need two characters to kiss again and I'm out of ways to make the kiss interesting. I tend though to try and use things like 'sucked on his/her tongue', 'bit their bottom lip', 'brushed his/her lips against person b's'. If its angry sex I try to mention teeth either scrapping lips or knocking into each other.